Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Sickle Cell Awareness

I have had the pleasure of meeting one of the most positive people that I can imagine. Mr. Jerrie'me Wright has been nothing short of motivational and supportive of the many ideas I have shared with him. To let him know just how valuable and influential to others, I am dedicating this month's post to him in honor of Sickle Cell Awareness month. In the midst of having Sickle Cell, Jerrie'me continues to show his strength and does not waver from his mission one bit. So before the month ends, I just had to share with you his responses to the questions I asked to become more aware of Sickle Cell.
How long have you been aware of your Sickle Cell Anemia disease?
"Sickle cell is an inherited blood disorder; therefore, individuals who carry the SS gene are born with it.  However, I have been aware of this disease as far back as the early 90's.  So, I would say about 4 or 5 years of age, when I could actually recall having sickle cell crises."
How did you come to understand it?
"I came to understand this disease while coming to age.  My older sister, Monica, lived with sickle cell disease.  So, I came to understand it not only from my point of view, but Monica's point of view as well. To come to understand sickle cell from her point of view, as well as my point of view, was a humbling experience. Nonetheless, today, I am still coming to understand sickle cell disease."
What is the difference between sickle cell trait and the sickle cell disease?
"Great question. Someone without sickle cell disease have normal hemoglobin (AA).  That is to say their red blood cells are normal in shape and function.  On the contrary, someone who has sickle cell trait (like my parents) are carriers of a single sickle cell gene (AS).  Therefore, they were able to pass it on, but were not affected as far as acute pain or complications. It is important for me to say, “Not every individual with sickle cell trait are exempt from the complications of the disease, however, the majority are.”  Most people who live with sickle cell trait feel well and usually live an active and healthy life.  Now, as it relates to those with sickle cell disease (like Monica and I), at birth two sickle cell genes (SS) are inherited, one from each parent.  Like our parents, we too are carriers, but we are also affected by every complication of the disease."
If you can compare sickle cell to anything, how would you describe what it's like to have the sickle cell disease?
"Hmm.  I'm not sure if I can compare sickle cell disease to anything, at least not right now.  However, I would describe having this disease to be very challenging in a number of ways.  Growing up as a kid, there were many things I could not do, because the chance of me having a sickle cell crisis.  While my brother went outside to play, I stayed behind looking out the window because of the possibility of overexerting myself and getting sick.  Although I came to terms with being limited in what I did, and now do, the challenge of this disease has not prevented me from achieving my goals."
Is there a support group for individuals with sickle cell? How do you gain the support you need?
"Yes there are support groups and foundations for individuals with sickle cell.  In fact, the James R. Clark Sickle Cell Foundation in Columbia, South Carolina support those living with sickle cell.  As for me, I gain the support I need from my family, loved ones, and friends.  My number one support group/system is my mother.  She has been all the support I have needed throughout my life. "
How can people help spread awareness?
"In order to spread awareness, individuals need to first learn about the disease.  People can help spread awareness by being proactive.  Today we are living in a social media society, so we can be proactive through the world of social media (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc.).  In addition, people can spread awareness by word of mouth.  I like the slogan, "Each one, teach one." Many people know of someone who has been affected or knows someone who is affected by sickle cell.  If we take that individual into consideration in bringing awareness, more individuals will be aware of sickle cell disease. This blog/article is also another tool in bringing awareness to others of sickle cell disease. So, thank you for your willingness to bring awareness of this disease to others!"
To learn more about Sickle Cell, visit the Sickle Cell Disease Association of America website: http://www.sicklecelldisease.org/

Sunday, August 10, 2014

Dream(Her)

Every girl is a dreamer at some point in her life. From the time a girl can begin to imagine a life she can call her own, she is able to understand that her thoughts are merely her dreams until she gets old enough to live them out. On the sad side, many girls are told that dreaming is crazy because life will never be the way they have dreamed it to be and it is unrealistic to even think of the possibilities. That leaves many girls fighting for the rest of their lives trying to prove those naysayers wrong or fighting to live their life by someone else's expectations. I am one of those girls. I am told that I am a dreamer all the time and that I live in my own fantasy world. But it is okay that I am an all-time dreamer and I will not stop reaching for my dreams until I have reached them, because I am happy doing just that. That's why I have come up with the idea of Dream(Her) to represent the girl who dreams. It is a reminder that it is okay to step out of the norm and do something that makes her happy. It is time for girls to live out their dreams and quit doing what society expects of the average female. I present to you Dream(Her)!!! This shirt should serve as a reminder to live the life you have always dreamed of living.  Order your shirt today by visiting www.mkt.com/inspireabc.
Note: Dream(Her) is pronounced Dreamer. 
While you are here, go ahead and comment with your dream!
Designing credits go to 15-year old Tajana Howard in Massachusetts! We have to raise the younger generation up and encourage them to go in a worthwhile direction.

Saturday, August 2, 2014

Minimum Wage Challenge

I think more people in charge of making these laws should have to bear the responsibility of understanding what we go through from day to day not being afforded luxuries that they have. They have stresses also, but is incomparable to the stresses of wondering where your next meal will come from or if you will have a place to stay the next day. Something needs to be done in America. It's supposed to be the land of opportunity but so many people are dying from no opportunity. That's backwards. Read the article.

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Canvas Art SALE!!!

Hey! Did I forget to mention that I am putting all of my canvas art on sale?! Yes!

Canvases are originally $25 including shipping but are now on sale for $18. 

The sale prices are good until the end of next week - July 31.  Visit the InspireABC Store at www.mkt.com/inspireabc and customize your canvas today! Check out some of the canvases below. Just let me know what you want done and I will let you know if I am able to get it done for you! Thanks!

Just e-mail inspireabetterconnection@gmail.com the photo or a description of what you want to be included on your canvas.

Below are pictures of some samples of the work that I have done.


Hanging Name Plate Canvas
Couple Canvas


 
Quote Canvas



Business Card Canvas
 
 







Photography Canvases (Color/Black&White)_


Saturday, July 12, 2014

Bulldog

"The nose of the bulldog is slanted backwards so he can breathe without letting go." -Winston Churchill
You're probably reading this quote and wondering what it has to do with you...Simple answer! When we think about a bulldog, we think of a mean, ferocious, aggressive animal that will chase you down, bite you and won't let go until his master says so or until it has reached the intended goal. Let's face it, bulldogs have a bad reputation. We, as human beings can be like this sometimes. We terrorize others without even knowing people are running in the opposite direction because of our reputation.  However, some of the human beings who act like the bulldog turn out to be the successful, on top entrepreneurs, executives, and leaders the rest of us could only dream of being.  The successful people who stay on top, however, are the ones who respect others, are approachable, and respectable.  They set their eyes on a reasonable target, work hard, don't give up, and fight until the end all while knowing how to breathe through it all so that the task does not become suffocating.  Set healthy goals and work towards them.  Be gentle with people while remaining ferocious with your goal.  So, breathe deeply and employ the help, criticism, and direction of others while holding on to the task at hand...besides the bulldog had to learn from his owner also. Take constructive criticism and help along your journey. With good leadership, we can all achieve great things. Remaining focused helps us to maintain.

Image taken from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/bulldog.

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Black History is everyday...

I apologize for not keeping up with my blog in the past few months as I should. I have had many moments of reflection, change, and insight which have kept me quite busy. I know there are many people who thought I should have at least posted thoughts in honor of black history month. Instead I chose to get up and get out in an effort to support black businesses and matters relevant to the community. I couldn't make it to everything but I will definitely make a conscious effort to get out and about much more. Besides, we should celebrate the contributions of our Black people more than in the month of February and that is what I intend to do.

Just to highlight a few activities, I attended a book signing in support of a local author by the name of Kianna Alexander. I learned a lot just by listening to her process and journey! It was much more powerful than I imagined. I escorted a few mentees to a black-owned dentist office where they learned about not only oral hygienic care but about life choices and the power in respect! I viewed The Butler with a room full of mentees and had a deep conversation about the content.

Most importantly, I gave back to me! I have been working very diligently on my own business! My website has a new look and I hope that you enjoy all that you see. I even joined in on a company selling candles that I just adore. The scents are so satisfying in my home. Visit my site http://mysoylscents.com/ID/inspireabc or click on the tab Candle Therapy above. There will definitely be a candle post coming soon!

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Thursday, January 23, 2014

Sometimes fixing the problem can be as simple as listening...

After looking at a YouTube video, I laughed...not because it was funny, but because I could totally relate. My husband and I have had numerous discussions about him just listening. There are times when I have to vent about a situation to help release tension and pressure to refrain from getting to the point of being annoyed.  He always tries to fix the problem and provides suggestions for things that I should do to feel better about the situation. However, his speaking only makes the issue worse! LOL Because all I need is an ear to listen to my situation and try to understand what I am feeling for adequate support at the time. Now, I have learned to just tell him that I just need him to listen before he gets too deep in providing solutions. Thankfully, he has definitely been working on it now :-). What we don't understand is that sometimes the problem is already fixed. Many times we already know what we need to do next to make the situation better or fix the problem on our own. Often the problem fixes itself. It is okay to not always fix the problem. Just listen! Copy and paste the link to watch the video.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg&feature=youtube_gdata_player